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Eric 11/3/02
I am a guy who has loved to see females wearing big hoop earrings. My wife wears them for me, but we have run into a problem. We can not find any places around here that sell the big hoops any more. Her biggest are 3" and now I am looking for some 4" to 5" diameter. If you know where I can get some please write me. (Members Page)

Bandit 11/3/02
I was at Penn State this weekend for the Illinois game and met a girl wearing 5 big hoops. We started chatting and she liked the small hoop I had in the upper ear. We ended up going to a piercing shop and she got 1 for herself.  They looked great!

embob 11/4/02 I'm a girl who wears Hoops
i LOVE big, thin hoops!! been wearin them 4years and will b wearin them 4 years 2 cum, even if im the only one!! this site is so 'me'!! anyone know where i can get hoops that are about 10cm across? im on about 7cm at the mo, but always on the lookout 4 bigger ones!! xxxxxxxx

Katherine 11/07/02
Curious as to the earlobe fetish... My boyfriend can't keep his fingers off of my lobes. Constant squeezing, tugging, etc. He doesn't enjoy biting them during intimate moments, rather just a more-than-occasional tug or two while driving, watching television, etc. Anyone know any males with this fetish?  JLG, Webmaster- Although hoops are not directly an earlobe fetish, they are connected (pun intended!) As for your question, you probably just have real cute ears! Can we see? ;)

James 11/15/02
1. I think medium or small hoops on a woman are just as sexy as large ones; how does anybody else feel? 2. Does anyone think two hoops in each ear are even sexier than just one? 3. Anybody else prefer plain silver to gold or decorated hoops? - think J_Lo's named-hoops look rather silly. 4. I think studs or jeweled piercings are a turn-off! JLG, Webmaster- Agree with everything you said except number one. For me, the bigger the better ;)    ... kind of like over-the-top !

James 11/25/02
I agree with your (thrilling) section on the ears as an erogenous zone.
Why else might hoops on a woman be a magical turn-on?
Knew a girl at university called Louise who always wore different-sized silver rings, sometimes two in each ear: she had a long nose but the hoops distracted from it, adding symmetry and balance to her face. A high ponytail made her even more ravishing.
I am sure the fascination of hoops somehow alter the way one scans a woman's face when looking at her. And can't the swinging-rhythm, like groove, induce sexual excitement?
Let's hear your thoughts on this!

Kim 11/29/02
I think I have finally gone over the top! A friend of mine had a huge collection of earrings she was letting me sort through, I found some great mega hoops, and wore them in all holes last night dancing!  I have to say I got a lot of looks so a lot more guys must be into this then I thought! What a great night! I really went all out! Great fun, but boy are my earlobes sore today!  Lucky for me I have some pretty sturdy ears!  Think I'm keeping these!

Tina 11/30/02 So what could be worse then getting your earring caught on a pillow and half ripping your earlobe off? How about doing  it at a party and having your best friend snap your picture right as you are totally freaking out! Picture attached. Bet you won't put this one up on your web site!  JLG, Webmaster- Wrong again!

Cassie 12/4/02
I love to wear hoops and recently finally found a 3" pair, now I am looking larger, but I need info, even foriegn. Because where I live it's hard to find a good pair. 

Minotaur 12/7/02
WOW... I am so glad I stumble across this site! I used to think that I was strange for my love of big hoop earrings. Not only do I love the sight of women wearing big hoops (especially many hoops in each ear) but I also love to wear big hoop earrings. I have 8 ear piercings (4 in each ear). My bottom hole
is stretched to 0ga (8mm) I did this by wearing large heavy earrings. As the holes got larger I would start wearing more than earring in the holes. I would wear a 3" hoop or a dangling earring with a stud in the same hole. Now I can wear 13-20 endless hoops or dangling earrings in my bottom hole. I have dozens
of hoops ranging from 1/2" to 6". I love the feel of the heavy hoops and the sound the hoops jingling together. I also have a pierced nostril, both nipples, and my foreskin...

PD 12/9/02
I loved that story by Barbara. I was shivering while read it. However, I thought it would be a challenge if I could locate her town so I did a web search on the piercing studio in her story , but guess what, nothing came up except a studio in Ann Arbor called Miami Moon. But if you recall, her story says that is her hair dresser!! Anybody ever hear of "Sun and Stars" or is "barbara" being etxra careful!! 8-) 
Just having fun  JLG, Webmaster- Hummm.. not uncommon for a writer to perhaps not want us to find them! 

James 12/31/02
My wife ran across your site last week and was pretty excited by that story by Barbara, and she made me read it (I did not know about your site myself). She's really into hoop earrings (she can wear two in each ear) and I think she looks pretty good with them on too. She's always looking for new ones, but has most of what's available now and I think was sort of getting bored with them, but she could not stop
talking about how neat the part of the story were about the nose ring that lady wore and about how neat
it might be to try that with her earrings. She even went out this past weekend and bought a couple of
those itty bitty clip on ones like that woman in the story had at some teeny bopper store, and tried them
on at home (except she put one of the rings on the side of her nose, not like the woman in the story, but
the other one she tried on her septum like in the story). They looked ok, but she's been bugging me
about twice a day since then to let her wear one of these on New Years Eve to a party we are supposed to go to, but I'm not so sure I like this idea. I'm afraid it's going to shock some people even if it is
so small, since I don’t see too many women her age (29) wearing a little ring on her nose. I guess I
might be ok with the one on the side of her nose, but I'm not so sure about her wearing the one in the
middle. I promised her I'd post this on your web site and see if we get any feedback, as maybe this would change her mind, or make me feel better about it if she does decide to wear it tomorrow.

Cindy 1/4/03
Maybe you guys can answer my question. My BF loves me to wear big hoops, but he keeps pulling on them! What is with that? He says it is not by intent, but I would swear it is. It hurts! I love him, but if this keeps up, I'm going to have three inch earlobes, or worse!  What would turn on a guy about seeing my earlobe stretched tight? I like hoops. I like the feel of them. I just don't like the feel of them being torn off my earlobes! Help!

Serena 1/8/03
Cindy - They are your ears and your earrings. Tell your BF that he must respect your feelings. Tell him it is not acceptable to pull your earrings, even accidently. Do you really want Mr Clumsy as your boyfriend? Maybe he is just fascinated by your earrings and he just got carried away. But remember it's YOU who gets to decide if he can touch your earrings. If you feel like letting him play with your earrings, fine, you can decide how and when. If you like the feeling of earrings swinging in your ears (I do) then you could let your BF swing them or flick them. If you want him to do it ONLY when you say so, tell him that he can flick them, and give him a signal at the same time, maybe by tilting or moving your head. He will pick up on your signal in future so he will know when you feel like having your earrings played with. If he can not control himself because he is too immature, or if he keeps on hurting you then get rid of him.

Chris 1/10/03
i am a man who has always loved hoop earrings on women, the bigger the better. now my girlfriend is bugging me to get my ears pierced and wear them myself, but i'm sort of unsure. im going to get them pierced this weekend, but i dont know about the hoops... i hardly ever see men wearing them. any other men have advice? how do people react to a man with large hoop earrings?

Kate 1/10/03
what about guys wearing hoops? these galleries are sexist... i want men with hoops :-)
JLG, Webmaster- Thus the Site title!  However, the web is a big place! Feel free to set up a "Guys with hoops" site, I am sure you will get plenty of pics as well!

Kris 1/11/03
Kate - you need to start your own website then ;)  But if you ask nice, I'm sure you can get some pics of us wearing hoops.  My last girlfriend liked me to wear her big hoops here and there. But I generally stick to the small hoops if any thing.

Kate 1/11/03
thanks. if you want to send me some pictures, email them to kateshoops37@hotmail.com . i'll tell you when the website's up and running :-)  just a random question: JLG, do you have your ears pierced and do you wear hoops?  JLG, Webmaster- In my younger years ;)  Too conservitive a job these days, so I just admire GWH !

Chris 1/12/03
I just got my ears pierced today... i haven't even put hoops in and already it feels fantastic. Any guys who like girls in hoops NEED to get their ears pierced... we can't let them have all the fun.

Mindy 1/12/03
What a cool site! I thought I was nuts!  I love the feel of big or heavy earrings on my earlobes, in an almost sexual way! *sigh* My friends always tell me I'm going to end up with stretched out ears, but I don't really care! There is something about the feel as they swing that makes me feel very hot. This is the first time I have found out I am not alone. I love the thread about how earrings can turn you on! 

Rob 1/13/03
Hi Everyone, It's great to see so many new posts!
Cindy, Serena is right. Speak to your boyfriend. 
Large hoops seem to be more popular than ever. I'm seeing so many women wearing them, whether out on the street or on T.V. Let's hope it carries on! On the subject of men with large hoops:  I rarely see men wearing large hoops with a diameter of more than 2". That said, the number of males wearing slightly larger hoop earrings with a diameter of 1" - 2" is way up, especially amongst teens. I wear a 1.5" diameter hoop occasionally, however, a friend of mine along with his two sons aged 11 and 14. wear them all the time. That doesn't sound much, but the earrings still look quite big and the girls at school find the boy's earrings cool. Maybe the guys are missing out!

Rick 1/14/03
It's true. My sons (10 & 17) both wear relatively large hoops (i'm not sure but i think they're two inches), and girls seem to love them. I think i may start wearing them myself.

Minotaur 1/15/03
Hi Kate, I have have had pierced ears since my teens and love to wear hoop earrings. I actually have several pairs 4" hoops and a pair of 6 " hoops that I frequently wear. I love the weight and the way they feel. Minotaur

Geneviève 1/19/03
Seeing Jenny Garth's (of BH 90210) double-pierced ears is a major turn-on for me!
I have three holes in each ear (two small hoops and a diamond).

hoops for me 2 1/20/03
What a great site!! I too thought I was alone in my enjoyment of big hoops. Glad to see there are so many like me. I have always been fascinated by big hoops and the women that wear them. My wife rarely does, even though she knows I love them. I wish I could wear them myself, however the job won't quite let me. If I could I would wear big hoops everyday and luv it!! Now that earrings have become mainstream for guys to wear, I hope the same happens with large hoops. All it will take is for a few well known individuals to begin the trend and then it will be here to stay. Until then, I will we watching and
hoping. Hope to see some pics of guys with big hoops to get it going!!

Kris 1/20/03
Hi Mindy - How many earrings do you wear? And what sizes? 

James 1/22/03
Could it be that hoops are sexy because they resemble the sexual orifice (s)?

James 1/22/03
"There is an affinity between the ceremonial of signs surrounding the erotic body and the ceremonial of suffering that surrounds sado-masochistic perversion. The marks of 'fetishism' always mimic and evoke the marks of sado-masochism (mutilation, wounds, cuts). These two perversions electively crystallise around this system of marks.
Certian marks (and only these are suggestive) render the body more nude than if it were really nude. Here the body's nubility is the perverse nudity associated with the ceremonial. These marks may be clothes or accessories, but also gestures, music or technique. All perversions need effects in the widest sense of the term. In sado-masochism suffering becomes the emblem of the body, just as jewels or rouge may in fetishist passion. All perversions revel in something: in the erotic system we are describing; in sado-masochism, it revels in suffering (painful auto-eroticism). There is, however, an affinity between the two, since whether the other suffers or indulges in himself, he is radically objectified. Every perversion acts out death."
- Jean Baudrillard, SYMBOLIC EXCHANGE AND DEATH
JLG, Webmaster- Then again, maybe not!  ;)

Jim 1/28/03
well, hoops for me 2, you can't just expect others to start the trend. you should try doing it yourself. do you already have pierced ears? if so, just try wearing small hoops, and then get gradually larger. protest the ban on hoops at work. just try and you'll succeed. my workplace used to have the same ban and now most of the guys there have earrings, some even 1-2" hoops. go for it.  best of luck -Jim

Mickey Jay 2/1/03
Hi guy's, check out my web site - http://cuddlynecrobabes.com/mh/WELCOME.htm  - Go to 'picture collection' then scroll down to the 'girls girls girls' link, you'll find loads of hoop pics there. They also feature very highly in most of the stories. The content might not be for everyone but there's some great pictures. Enjoy.        JLG, Webmaster- Warning! This site is not "G" rated. 

Heather 2/7/03
I where hoops constantly that's all i where but i like the Large hoops... and i don't know where to buy them from is there any site you know of besides walsh brothers. 

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