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Geneviève 4/22/03
Pour celles et ceux qui souhaitent correspondre, mon adresse est

James 5/2/03
Hi Mate
Just thought I'd let u know of a girl that u might be interested in, her name is Joanne and she is on Australia's Big Brother which just started recently over here, I don't know if u get it over there in the UK, but the site is http://bigbrother.optus.com.au/
She loves the big hoops and wears those reading glasses u like so much.
Do yourself a favour and check the site out. If u have probs let us know. Here's a couple of pics of her

Karl 5/6/03
Hi JLG, I 'm a little unquiet because you have not answered to my e mail, and the hoops site hasn't been updated for about 2 or 3 weeks... I just want to know if you are Ok and all is good for you? And if you can give the e-mail of Genevieve because it doesn't appear on the site... JLG (Webmaster) Still here! Things are a little quiet, but that happens! BTW, her Email addy is on the W.L.F page.

Pattie 5/16/03
To Annie,  Got your email and yes I love the new world of hoops! All is well, although I think I have been overdoing it a bit. The holes look like tiny little slots, but no big deal. I have a new boyfriend and he has already admitted that one of the reasons he was attracted to be was that he loves large earrings!  I have been experimenting with some of the large chandelier earrings like Nicole Kidman wears, but still find the hoops to be my favorite! I get a real kick out of trying to find bigger and bigger things to wear on our dates. As I have always been into the arts & crafts stuff, I have taken to inventing some of my own. It's fantastic fun!

Kim 5/19/03
Pattie, be careful! Your ears are freshly pierced and could start tearing without you noticing anything until an earring hits the floor! (It happened to a friend of mine) It takes many months or even years for a strong piercing to form. The tender little holes in your earlobes are just that. As the months go on, a little skin tunnel forms between the front and back. Once it has, you can have a lot of fun with crazy earrings. But, give it a chance to form!

mg 5/21/03
hey everyone, i just found this site and its ecactly what ive been looking for. im a guy and i have a thing about girls and hoop earrings,especially multiple pierced ears. i myself only have each lobe pierced
once and the top of my left ear. i would love to get maybe one more per ear but work and relatives would prolly frown on it. i love the way hoops feel on me and sometimes when im alone i put large hoops in them. the feeling is great.

Zak 6/4/03
I am Brazilian, 22 years, adore girls of earrings and lobulos of pierced ears, I have feitiche for girls with pierced ears and using hoops. I got passionate myself for the site of you I ordered translated for English my text. Since small I have a wonderful sensation for girls and earrings, rings then nor if it speaks.
Girls use exactly, pierce its ears two times to little, are fantastic, who to want to comment something for the site, I translate here into me. I adored this site, the best one that already vi!
Ah, yes, I went forgetting myself. Pattie, its historia left me very excited, could order photos its of as estao its hoops and its ears to me, I would adore to see these photos, after reading its history, zakmail@ibest.com.br

StephenHoopDreams 6/24/03
I have been fascinated by earrings and ear piercing for as long as I can remember. At first I was horrified by the idea of girls willingly submitting to having their ears pierced, but this of course soon turned to
fantasy and now I am obsessed with the sexiness that pierced ears represent to me. Almost the first thing I notice about an attractive woman is her ears - whether, where, and how many times they are pierced. Women are so gorgeous anyway, but there is something truly mysterious about the way they use their
earrings to contrast the softness of their skin and the contours of their beautiful ears, especially by wearing hoops, because they accentuate the fact that their ears are pierced. The fact that pierced hoop earrings pass through pierced earlobes, and the visual effect of it, are indescribably sexy. I keep this a complete secret, but it's a relief that it's not just a man like me who is obsessed with pierced ears - it seems like this site is visited by people with the same obsession. Unfortunately I live in a very conservative world, and although I have dreamt about it many times, I have never plucked up the courage to have my ear pierced - I fear that most people don't appreciate the look in a man and find it questionable - my girlfriend doesn't, for starters! Anyway, thanks for the site, and I happily wiled away a few hours looking at the sexy pictures and indulging my secret fantasy!

Pattie 7/1/03
I just thought I would look in and wow, people are back again! SHG, I suspect a lot of guys who are into this may share a lot in common with your thoughts, I think my boyfriend does! I also love the way hoops look, magically passing through my ears. They are my favorites! 

H & E guy (notices women's hair & ears)7/8/03 
A young woman friend, 30-something in age, has blonde hair and very pretty, nicely shaped ears which she has double pierced in the left, triple in the right but has quit wearing earrings. I suggested once she consider putting the hoops and small studs in again, even having an upper ear pierce, but she changes the subject or ignores me. I think she's afraid she'll get her ears ripped or even taken off (it's been portrayed in a few movies) and she travels a lot sometimes to cities with bad areas. But I'll keep working on her. I even dreamed I took her for an upper ear piercing and she believes dreams are prophetic so there's hope for some sparkle under her hair again.

H & E guy 7/9/03
As for my pretty blonde friend who should wear her hoops and small studs again, she explained that in her business encounters, she sometimes meets up with obnoxious older men who make inappropriate comments. She mostly shrugs them off. One such "compliment" was in regards to her double and triple pierced ears. The "gentleman" actually reached through her hair, took ahold of her ear, then tucked her hair back, saying he liked her pierced ears and would like to "have one" for his collection! She froze, gulped, then took it in stride but kept thinking here she was in a first class hotel, nicely dressed, surrounded elegance... and some guy WANTED one of her EARS!! It was not in keeping with the
surroundings. He was teasing/flirting but she was startled by the invasion of her space. So she stopped wearing her earrings. No doubt, he "does" some young women's ears wherever he goes. Which brings up the question, is it appropriate to compliment women on their earrings and/or ears? (Not the way she experienced of course.) Most women probably wouldn't mind a compliment on their clothes, smile, or even eyes, but are earrings and ears too personal? What are some other women's opinions? Also, the previous writer, Stephen.... expresses my thoughts too. JLG (Webmaster) I think it only feels too personal because we happened to be so interested! I believe a complement done in good taste will always be seen as that.  As for Hanible the Cannibal......  

Pattie 7/10/03
H&E, Tell your friend she has nothing to worry about! I've only been wearing hoops for a few months, but they really are easy. Three or four times I managed to get them caught and they always pop right off with no harm done. The bigger ones almost come off too easy, I guess cause they are so easy to bend. The only time I got hurt was with a shoulder duster. They were long beaded things on french hooks. I tossed on a rain coat and one got caught under the collar. Ouch! My ear was red for days! 

H & E guy 7/10/03
Thank you Pattie, I'll pass along the advice. I think she's snagged her hoops before without any problem. Since having her personal space invaded, (see previous story), she probably doesn't want to attract the wrong kind of attention so avoids wearing earrings on business trips... She will wear her hoops though out doing yard work...she's perfect either way!

Pattie 7/11/03
I know what you mean by that space thing! It someone strange gets within two feet of me it really creeps me out.  I love the big hoops because I think it's so "Me", but I can see her point. When I want to tease, I wear them, but some of the creeps out there don't need any encouragement. I hope she wears them a little bit for you. 

H & E guy 7/11/03
Pattie, I'm encouraging her to do an upper ear pierce, not too much though since she's apprehensive about it, but she'll wear hoops again I'm sure. It would have been one thing if that guy would have just said what he said, but the hair reach and tuck definitely made it a squirmy sensation. I told her even
is she sees him again, he's probably looking to meet new females and new reactions. At least she's got a good girl talk story, but I avoid teasing her too much. Be careful out there.

James 7/15/03
Is anyone else here turned on by leather belts on women?
Think when worn around a woman's shirt etc. it accentuates her figure and the hip area in particular, in the way that hoops balance the face and emphasize the erogenous zones of the face and neck.

Pattie 7/22/03
I just got my first pair of four inch hoops! Kmart, of all places! I am dying to go out in them. I tried them on a little while ago and they made me feel so sexy! I have one problem, I feel so self-conscious that my ears are turning red!

Karl 8/13/03
I have added some pics G rated, but i have also a huge collection of sexual (hovery hot or just sexy) pictures with girls with earrings or earhoops or earplays pictures! We can't to put these pictures in order to respect this website and his genious webmaster (thanks for the site) but i can exchange my pictures, e-mail me... Pattie : each of your post upset me!!! A sexy girl entering in the fantastic worlf of hoopgirls!!! Welcome!!!!!

Craig 8/20/03
i have a question for the Lady's . i have loved hoops in womens ears as long as i can remember, a real turn on.i even pierced my own, and loved it. my wife has been very accommodating . no problems there.
now that things have changed so much i no longer feel the need to keep it a secrete(work place etc.) now that i have retired i wear my earrings all the time and have gotten very positive reactions. we are also reenactors so i have pierced my ears in the native American fashion. the result is that i can wear a large variate of combinations.
my ears are pierced from the bottom to the top( 12 holes the bottom 3 are stretched the biggest at the bottom accommodates a 1 inch Oleg. with a secound row of small holes for studs above the lower 6 holes total of 18 holes)  i am interested in how the people who watch this sight feel about guys in hoops. 
JLG (Webmaster) One note: There are a lot of sites about guys with earrings, so I don't want to get into any galleries. That being said, There seams to be enough intrest in the subject to at least start a thread on the subject. Your thoughts?

JLG 8/20/03 (webmaster)
Friends, many of the pictures that you have sent in are a little to hot for this site. Although I really do not want any hard porn, I am contemplating setting up a Lycos, or Yahoo site that is age restricted for some of these pictures. If so, it would be in the "long range" plan. In the meantime, if you come across any great pictures of girls with large hoops, send them in using this address. Only the "G" rated ones will be put up on this site, however I am collecting the others for a more "R" rated site in the future. Remember no "X" pictures! Also, I am toying with doing a site on Girls with long dangly earrings as well.
Thank you!

Pattie 8/21/03
Karl, what do you mean by earplay pictures?  Do you have a picture of earplay?  If there is something I am missing out on, I would love to see it! I am so sorry if my posts upset you. I hope that is a misspelling or something. My email addy is in the list here. PS To VG, there is a picture of me somewhere on this site, but I sent it in anonymously. I got your email.

Rob 8/22/03
Hi, It is great to see more activity on this board again! I think the idea of an 'R' rated site is a good one, that way everyone will know what to expect at the different sites. 
Karl, Have you considered putting your photos on Yahoo Briefcase or something similiar?
I don't know about North America, but over here in Europe long dangly earrings are becoming increasingly popular. Unfortunately, these seem to get caught a little too easily for my liking, but maybe the risk is a turn-on. Who knows?
On the subject of men wearing earrings: I had my left ear pierced when I was 10. In my experience women either really like earrings on men, or not at all. Often it depends on the wearer. It is however, nothing new.

BB 8/22/03
I discovered this site a little while back and have become fan. I have been an admirer of women with great earrings for years. My preference in hoops is large diameter hoops of small diameter tubing. I also like the longer dangle earrings, so a website for them would be great. I go for the larger, but delicate dangles with gentle movement. I have been designing and making earrings as a hobby for several years and the consistent feedback is to make them light in weight. Women with double pierced ears have options to wear hoops with hoops, dangles with dangles, hoops with dangles or either with studs. I love the creative looks that multiple piercings allow. Great site! Keep up the good work.

Pattie 8/22/03
Light is nice! Someone told me that the thicker they are, the safer they are, but I don't understand that. I like them to really attract attention, that's why my hoops are my favorite! 
JLG (Webmaster) I think what you heard is that a thicker earwire is better. (The actual part that goes through the piercing.) Thin earwires focus the force on the bottom of the piercing, so they can multiply the effective weight of the earring. (bad thing.)

CA Fan 8/27/03
I am surprised at how few shots you have of Christina Aguilera on your site! Man, that is a girl who knows how to use her lobes! I have attached a few pictures you may want to use. JLG (Webmaster) Thank you! The hoop shots are up in Galleries 60 and 61. I am holding onto the dangle shots you sent for the new site.

Karl 8/29/03
Hi everybody... For my photos : I prefer to exchange or send by mail... so i don't really want to put them on a portfolio. For the Gallery 62 : From what the 3 first shots are exctracted??? maybe a film but what il the title? (same girl in gallery 24) Pattie : do you want more information or pic about earplays? Rob : Yes, dangle and big hoops are risky because they can be caught very easily and it's a huge turn on!!! craaacck CA Fan : i agree Christian know how use her lobes? and you? do you have a special way of "using your lobes"?

Pattie 8/31/03
Karl, I would love to see some pictures on this! You know my addy! CA fan, Christina Aguilera was one of my big inspirations for wanting big hoops! I don't know about the lip thing, it looks painful! 

Chapek 9/3/03
Hi John, I have just arrived in Germany after 6 weeks of travelling in eastern europe. I head back home to Aussie land next week. Thought I´d inform you that the girls in Eastern Europe are going crazy over hoops! They can be readily purchased at low cost and come in all sizes. Australian women don not
like big earrings so I was very happy to see a healthy change in Europe. Bought the biggest hoops I have ever seen in Bratislava, Slovakia 2 weeks ago. They must be 5 inches!! I have taken some nice shots and will share them with you over the next 2 weeks, as usual. You can decide which ones you want to post on the site. Eastern Europe would have to be one of the best places for Hoop lovers. By the way good to see that your sites has become big so quickly. A lot of people must have sent you photos over the last 6 weeks or so. Anyway, I will keep in touch. Thanks.. Chapek !! PS I will take a photo of the big hoops to show you the gigantic size... cheers.

In Love With BK 9/4/03
I am in love with Beyonce Knowles! I die whenever I see her in huge earrings! My toes start tingling! She must really have some great earlobes to be able to wear the stuff! I found some pictures I hope you will put up. Anybody else love her? 

New Hoop Lover 9/10/03
My wife had always been pretty plain - we are in our 40s.  She was away in Spain for two weeks on business and did I get a surprise when she came home.  My wife had always worn very plain earrings - very small hoops and studs.  I went to pich her up at the airport and she really took me for a turn.  Getting off the plane was what looked like a different woman.  She had very large and thick hoops in her bottom holes, medium (but still large by her standards) hoops in the second holes and a new hole in her cartilage with a small hoop. She was the sexist thing I had ever seen.  Stunned, she came up and kissed me and said she had purchased 8 pairs of new large Spanish style earrings and that she would always be wearing them now.    I was in heaven and have been ever since...

From Happy Husband 9/13/03
I had opened up to my wife one night and told her how i was fascinated by hoop earrings and thought they made women look younger and sexier.  She asked how many were the right number, and I told her what looked best was college age women with hoops all the way around.  And I told her the bottom hoops cannot be large enough!
Next day I left for a one night business trip.  When I talked with her that night, she said she had a surprise for me.  When I got home, she was wearing large gold hoops in her ears - they went to her shoulders.  I couldn't stop telling her how great she looked and thanking her for buying the earrings.  Her surprise was great!  She then pulled back her long hair and revealed 10 new earrings - all small hoops in each ear.

goodboy 9/15/03
I am fond of this site. I love seeing girls with those big hoops. I sometimes feel like wear those hoops in real life. Is there any girls woho would suggest me if it will be good to look for a guy with big hoops. I just wish to pierce my ears.

Pattie 9/17/03
Happy Hooper here! I luv some of those new pictures! Who is the girlfriend? I broke down and got another piercing in my left ear. I think the jingle will sound cool! HH, you sound like a happy man, but 10? All at the same time? Ouch! *wink* 

From Happy Husband 9/18/03
Pattie - she surprised me - 10 in each ear!!  She said she had planned on getting several, but her piercer had both her ears done all the way around and she loved how they looked.  Her holes are mostly healed now and she has given no indication of taking them out.

Alive 9/19/03
Happy Husband- You are a lucky man indeed. How long has it taken to heal all of the new holes? Could your wife write a story about her experience?
Pattie- Congrats on your second hole. Do you have plans for more?

Happy Husband 9/20/03
Alive - She has had them now for 7 weeks.   The lower holes have healed and she is now wearing larger hoops in each ear's second hole.   She looks great - like a new person.   She has long blonde hair and she has been wearing it in a ponytail more now so that others can see her new ears.   She just seems to like jewelry more now as well.  She wears about 5 or 6 bracelets now all of the time and at least two necklaces - one a new silver ball choker she found.  And she has suggested that I get my ears pierced.

Bandit 10/6/03
who is the beautiful blonde girl in gallery 64? Wow, I would love to see more pictures of her. 

Ramirez 10/17/03
I'm a hoops lover. I like very much to see girls who wear hoops earrings but heavy. I like heavy earrings who elongate the earlobe, and many holes in each ears. I'v have a fetish earrings and another one with hobble skirt. I wear long tight skirt at home but I don't have my ears pierced. I'm perfect normal and nobody knows what I like to wear and to see. I try to find a girl who want to have a friend or boyfriend who wear home hoops earrings and hobble skirt only for his and her pleasure. Bye!

Pattie 10/21/03
Yes Peter, I am the Pattie on the list! I am sorry it took so long to respond, but my life has been wild this month. (not in good ways) Yes I am still in hoops although I have not put one in my new hole yet. I don't usually email people so don't feel left out! (I had a bad experience once), but feel free to email me!  

cool flames 10/21/03
i simple love girls in hoops...

Pam 10/22/03
Forgive me, I'm new. I was looking for some new earrings and stumbled on this place. I spent the last hour reading all these pages and finally got up the nerve to post. If I don't make sense it's cause I'm nervous. I guess I always knew that when I chose to wear big earrings it was because I was trying to look sexy, but still this all surprised me. I can't say that wearing hoops turns me on, but I know I look good in them and that makes me feel good. I was surprised by all the talk about stretching and pulling as this is something every person with pierced ears tries to avoid, yet there are some cultures that don't. I can remember in my collage studies all these drawings of Asian women who had intentionally stretched their ears. I could never understand it. Then all those African tribal pictures. I though of how odd these other cultures must be. Then I walked into a Walmart and the girl who was at checkouts was as American as me, but there she was with these huge eyelets in her ears! I remember asking her why, and she responded, "they make me feel sexy."  I've always cursed the fact that my own holes have stretched on their own despite the fact that I usually wear conservative earrings. I think that is going to change now. I like big earrings and if my holes stretch out, I will just consider myself culturally enlightened!   

Pattie 10/25/03
Pam, I know what you mean. I think it's a teenage rebellion thing, or an attempt to give mom and dad a heart attack! I've never wanted to do anything like that myself, outside of wearing outrageous earrings. I remember reading something sometime ago about those other cultures. Something along the lines of wearing your wealth on your ears, or it being a status symbol. I guess it would be like us wearing credit cards for earrings! Hey, that's a thought! Maybe I could start a new trend!

JLG 10/25/03 (Webmaster)
That last post was worth a Google search, and sure enough, Someone beat you to it! Click on the picture to link to the site that is selling these and other miniatures. 

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